Daring & Mighty Love

Stop looking for your soul mate!!

That's the secret!

Take the focus off the external search and go inward.

You have got to prepare yourself by doing the inner work - healing your heart so that you may open it to receive in your match.

Your man will appear when you are ready and he will likely turn up in a way that you could never have predicted.

I get asked so often by women what I think about various dating platforms - Tinder? Match? Single Events? Bumble? Online? Offline?

I can't answer that question.

The better question is, "How can I open my heart so that I am a magnet for him to find me?"

Now we're talking!

Getting to know and love yourself is the way to fast track him finding you.

When you are filled up with so much self trust, compassion, confidence, understanding and love then you will attract in someone that has that for themselves. You will individually be overflowing with love so there will be more than enough to share. There will be an equality to the sharing. Neither party will be lacking, deficient or starved - looking to the other to be filled up. Your individual fulfilment will attract you to each-other.

If you desire a committed, exclusive, emotionally connected, profoundly loving relationship with someone else then you have got to have all of that with yourself first.

When you are so switched on and turned on inside, you will be a magnet for your match.

The platform or event or 'way' to meet him becomes irrelevant. The Universe will steer you to the action you need to take and that could be anything from feeling inspired to walk a different route to work (thereby bumping in to him on the street!) or it could be a kick up the bum at the perfect time from a friend insisting you try a new dating app…then voila, he is the first man to connect with you and it's ease and flow from there.

Love is magical! Invite in the mystery and allow yourself to expand into the miracles available to you once your heart is open.

Be 'the one' for you first. Focus on that. The rest will follow.

I remember when I feared that meeting a man would mean the end of freedom and adventure in my life (that was a huge block to love for me) until I realised that my soul mate relationship would be an adventure and the unconditional love we would share would mean that we would allow each-other to adventure separately as well as together.

I recently travelled to Mexico for a women's retreat. What an adventure on all levels! My man was so supportive because he loves me even more to witness me live my life fully in my truth.

Our journey of intimacy together is a daily adventure too. We are committed to healing any blocks to love that we have - together. Now that 'aint for the faint of heart!

With him I am free to be me - that is ultimate freedom.

To attract in a man with whom I could create an experience of freedom and adventure required me to prepare myself first.

To feel free to be me had to be a very intimate and personal experience first before I could share that with someone else.

Once upon a time I didn't know who I was and I certainly didn't love, accept and appreciate myself. So, how could I expect someone else to? The irony is that I feared I would lose myself to a man but I didn't even know myself to know what I was losing!

Committing to the deep inner work that will guide you home to a profound sense of self is something you can never lose.

This healing work allows you to open your heart to yourself. With an open heart you can then be open to others in a healthy way. Your open heart allows your soul mate to find you and he wants nothing more than for you to be the most fully expressed, happy and fulfilled you so he will be your biggest support team. He will not block you to adventure and freedom in your life. He will help you to have more! And your life together will be an enormous adventure if that's what you desire. Together you get to define your relationship and create what feels good for you both - together and individually.

To quote 'When Harry Met Sally' - "You know like you know about a good melon!"

You just 'know'.

I always loved that idea but it was just that - an idea. I didn't think it was possible for me to have that Hollywood moment.

In retrospect I can see how I came to create this experience for myself (note the importance of those specific words please).

I had to learn to how to heal my heart and then how to open my heart.

With a healed and open heart it was easy for me to 'know' very quickly whether someone was right for me or not. When I was dating I didn't have to endure the anxiety and agony of wondering if 'he was the one'. With an open heart, I knew. So when 'the one' turned up it was like, "Oh! Of-course! There you are!" It was so bleeding obvious!

I love my man's heart. Sure, I love his mind and body but that is almost superficial to the love I have for his soul. Our soul's know each-other.

The route to opening up your energy to attracting in your soul mate is learning how to open your heart.

That is energetic, healing work. It is deeply transformational work. And it is available for you.

The work starts with a decision. All change is ignited by intention. You gotta start there.

Here's what I know. Physical attraction lasts a nano-second in the whole scheme of things. So, if you don't have a mental and emotional connection with someone, there just isn't any longevity.

If you have the physical attraction plus mental attraction then your interest in someone has a slightly longer life-span.

The real juice is emotional attraction. When we feel able to connect emotionally with someone, we are creating intimacy and that's the stuff of fulfilling longevity.

To have a healthy emotional connection with someone else requires you to have a healthy emotional connection with yourself first. I am not saying you need to have perfected emotional mastery but you do need to have a solid, trusting, committed and 'best friend like' emotional connection with yourself.

When you have intimacy with yourself you can create intimacy with someone else.

Intimacy is fulfilling and that lasts because it allows two committed people to journey together as their souls evolve, diving deeper and deeper into the discovery of each-other. That is an adventure of a lifetime!

I have a history of relationships that were full of drama and incredibly painful as a result because we were two emotionally unhealed people essentially coming together to be healed. There was purpose to the relationships (everything has a reason) and some healing did occur but we created additional wounds in the process because we hadn't done the work individually to heal. We hadn't journeyed alone, into the depths of our individual experiences of shame, hurt and abandonment to heal our hearts.

Let me re-iterate, you do not need to be perfect for your soul mate to find you. You do need to do the human work to clear the path for him to come in so that you can continue the journey of healing and expansion together.

You deserve a relationship that is a trusting, open and loving experience. First, you need to have a trusting, open, loving experience of yourself.

Self-Love is the path that will clear the way for your 'one' to come in and and then life long lasting intimacy is pretty much guaranteed!

I believe everything happens at the right time. As humans, we forget our Spiritual truth and that we can trust that life is designed to support us (even though it doesn't always feel like that).

I also believe it’s imperative that we know ourselves before sharing ourselves with someone.

Taking the time to know and love yourself as an independent, confident, self sufficient and self fulfilled person is so important.

I have experienced terribly painful relationships where we both looked to the other for our fulfilment and happiness. That is WAY too much to expect from another person. Talk about pressure!

You are a unique woman. Your journey, life experiences, healing and transformation is unique to you. Your time frame and your process is uniquely yours. There’s no ‘right’ time for anything. Your ‘right’ life partner will turn up at exactly the ‘right’ time for you and once you meet each-other, you will just ‘know’ this to be true. It will become clear why you couldn’t have met sooner - likely, you simply were not ready. You had not done the work to claim yourself fully so that you could bring your most fulfilled self to the equation.

Your soul mate will come into your life when you have prepared yourself fully and that is what this programme is all about.

Preparation is not just the key to meeting him. It’s the key to speeding up the process!

The more connected you are to yourself, the more healed and open your heart, the less time will be wasted dating the wrong men (or at least, you will know more quickly whether a man is right for you or not so you can move swiftly on to being available for your soul mate to find you).

It's time to understand why you're single and how to call in your soul mate.

• 7 x 2hr group coaching calls (every other week) lead by Therapeutic & Intuitive Coach, Katie Phillips. These intimate calls will support your personal studies as you work through the accompanying home-study course, 'Daring & Mighty Love’.

• Access to a private and highly interactive Facebook Group where Katie will be offering you coaching support in-between the live coaching calls.

• Unlimited and lifetime access to a password protected Membership Site which delivers the home-study course.

• Powerful preparatory work to ensure you begin your studies with a bang!

• 12 x in-depth Training Videos - ranging from 30-50minutes each.

• 12 x in-depth Worksheets to accompany each training module.

• A Q&A Call with James (Katie's husband) for a man's perspective!

• A selection of powerful guided visualisations to download and listen to at any time to aid your process of change.

• A highly recommended and carefully curated reading list to support your journey.

Here’s what you will get from this deep dive into you:

• Receive powerful trainings and empathetic personal coaching support from our founder, Katie Phillips for 14 weeks.
• Be part of a group of women with the same desires as you - receive their support, encouragement and love. You are no longer alone.
• Fall back in love with yourself! Finding the love of a man that will honour and respect you requires you to love yourself first, with deep honouring and respect.
• Realise your self confidence, self trust and self worth
• Let go of limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns of behaviour which are the reason your man has been blocked to finding you (because remember, he is looking for you too!).
• Harness your Feminine Superpowers which are key to attracting in the Empowered Masculine. You will be supported through a massive behavioural overhaul and the creation of brand new habits and ways of doing life.
• Awaken to pleasure, fun, play and desire.
• Improve your body confidence by learning how to love and accept your physical self.
• Discover how emotional mastery is your key manifesting tool and learn how to harness that power.
• Rewire your mind so that your thoughts feel clear, confident and ready for empowered dating.
• Connect with the power of the Universe to co-manifest your soul mate.
• Get clarity on who your ideal life partner is and what your life together will look and feel like.
• Create a personalised 'soul mate strategy' for manifesting your man - this will be a beautiful, creative and magical experience. No excel spreadsheets or tick-boxes for you!
• And so much more....!

We have created an incredibly comprehensive training programme to assist you in bringing in your man. This work is Katie’s expertise and passion. Guiding women home to themselves and towards their deepest desires is her life’s purpose and she would love to be your guide in manifesting the love you deserve into your life.

You will be guided through a process of transformation that will be fun, liberating and incredibly powerful. More detail on the 12 modules of content is below. Just scroll down

WHERE?

This entire programme is offered online meaning you can connect with your fellow students and access your study modules and group coaching calls from anywhere in the world.

The online course is hosted in a password protected site allowing you to access it at any time with your unique user name and password.

Your group coaching calls are hosted over ZOOM (online video conference) every other week.

The intimate community is available to you via a private Facebook group.

WHEN?

You may join the Facebook Group and start the home study course the moment you sign up to the programme to get a head start on your studies!

All live coaching will occur on London Timezone.

Email support@theschoolofself.love to find out when you can join the waitlist for our next group.

Katie - Founder of The School of Self-Love and your head coach. An intuitive healer, powerful therapeutic coach, love mentor, masculine / feminine energy embodiment guide and grounded spiritual teacher - all rolled into one!

This is a high level coaching programme for a maximum of 10 women to ensure you get my fullest attention. Your healing and transformation is my priority - hence the intimate group size.

The personalised support and coaching from Katie and her team of coaches will shine a light on what you cannot see for yourself. It’s those most deeply disguised and hidden subconscious blocks that are your biggest barriers to love and it’s the role of the expert to help you to see, feel and heal them. This is deep work, not to be done alone. It is also a process of work requiring a commitment over a period of time.

The group dynamic will amplify your experience. Awarenesses will be increased, healing and transformation will be sped up. Such is the energy of a group with a shared intention - supporting and inspiring each-other every step of the way.

Your investment reflects all of this. It is a priceless gift to yourself.

This programme is an investment in the beautiful intricacies, depths and layers of you and your life experiences. Your return on investment will be high and return dividends forever if you commit to the processes and do the work.

I wonder what you could gain from this investment in you? I wonder what will shift in yourself, how you feel and your life from this investment? I wonder how you will show up to ensure you get the best return on your investment!

Healing the inner child is your route to healing the victim archetype and allows you to show up in the world as your true empowered feminine.

A 'RESET' experience with Katie will amplify your healing and speed up the process of calling in your man. It includes:

• Powerful preparatory work to submit to Katie before your 1:1 coaching call;
• A pre-coaching meditation designed to prepare you for inner child healing;

• Two hour coaching session with Katie, conducted over Zoom (with camera);
• Bespoke homework for you to complete after your session to deepen you healing;

• WhatsApp access to Katie for a week following your Reset for private support as you integrate the healing

Lucy Brand is a mystic and intuitive energy healer who supports women in releasing trauma from their heart, womb and yoni so they can call in their desired relationship.

We will be doing heart healing as part of this programme and I believe womb and yoni healing is incredibly complimentary of that work and amplifies your healing. The heart and the womb are connected!

So that you can speed up the process of calling in your man, Lucy is offering you a 90 minute 1:1 private 'Energetic Essence Heart & Womb Healing' session with her.

Join celebrity dating, love and relationship coach, James Preece, for a 90 minute personalised workshop on how to up-level your online dating profile.

James will support you personally and individually. He will also be available to answer all your dating questions!

This is also a chance to experience receiving support from the empowered masculine.

Join Samantha Francis, award winning parenting and relationship expert and best selling author, for a 90 minute Q&A on how to introduce a man into your family unit and feel safe to blend your families together.

We will explore how to use your feminine energy to create ease and flow when integrating your family.

Samantha's own experience of domestic violence, trauma and recovery will inspire you to what's possible.

A 90 minute workshop with Katie Phillips on healing the original victim.

We will explore how your childhood experiences are shaping the woman you are today and how a small child is currently running your finances, career, and relationships.

To call in your guy you must evolve from a Scarcity Mindset into an Abundance Mindset.

You will learn how to create an abundance mindset with this 4 hour audio training on how to up-level your money mindset. This training includes powerful homework.

Expect everything in your life to start shifting as you apply these teachings - from men to money to manifesting all your desires!

This is a 6 week online home-study course which you might like to do once the Daring & Mighty Love Programme has completed.

This is an opportunity to deepen your relationship with yourself and strengthen your ability to put yourself first - meaning the people you care about will get the best version of you.

Module two of this course is also offered as complimentary homework to your private 1:1 Reset coaching session with Katie.

A 60 minute training with Katie Phillips on how to create flow between your empowered masculine & feminine energies.

This teaching will show you how to finally trust, value and activate your Empowered Feminine on a daily basis.

I have spent hundreds (perhaps thousands!?) of hours exploring how to call in love.

When I was single I read the books, listened to the podcasts and even interviewed experts on my own podcast trying to find the secret to calling in love.

Since meeting my guy (now husband) I’ve spend hundreds of hours getting to grips with exactly what I did to become a magnet for love so that I could share that knowledge, experience and wisdom with other women.

I’ve written thousands of words on the subject, created trainings and filmed courses.

30% of the women that have come to me to meet their guy are already in relationships! All the women I have coached on love and relationship have deepened their relationship with themselves and healed their hearts and childhood wounds to such a profound degree that they are feeling the self confidence, self worth and self trust to put themselves out there in a way that they never dreamed possible. They’re all improving relationship with friends, children, parents and colleagues along the way too - a nice bonus!

Some women that I work with aren’t sure if they want to be in a relationship but know they want to have a better relationship with themselves in order to make that decision.

Some women that I work with would like to meet someone but they know they need to emotionally and mentally prepare themselves first because they don’t want to bring the baggage of their past into their desired new relationship.

Some women I work with are super keen to be with someone but want to attract in a different kind of man and know they need to focus on what’s going on for them that’s had them attracting in the ‘wrong men’.

All of the women I work with desire to trust themselves more and they want to feel more worthy of the kind of love they desire. They want to feel empowered around dating and their ability to be in a healthy relationship.

I was all of those women!! Once upon a time I didn’t know if I could ever love again. Skip forward a bit and I was open to the idea but attracting in wrong men for me. Fast forward a little more and I realised that the kind of guy I wanted was so incredible that I needed to deepen my self belief and self worth to be the vibrational match for him. It was a journey home to my empowered feminine!

The journey to meeting your guy is a journey to meeting yourself. I call that your ‘Daring & Mighty Self’! There are levels and layers to that but no matter where you are at, my work can and will support you.

I was helping my clients to find love before I did. It took my own success to give me the confidence to teach and coach specifically on how to meet your soul mate. I needed to be my own success story first.

I am a 46 year old woman who didn’t meet her ‘one’ until 42 and marry until she was 44 - so I blew the myth that ‘you can’t find love after 40’ well and truly out of the water!

I have had my heart broken multiple times and I learned how to heal to such a degree that I was categorically NOT taking my past relationship shit into my next relationship. Neither of us deserved that.

I have dated addicts and narcissists and I learned how to strengthen my own self confidence, self belief, self worth and self trust to such a degree that I would never ever be available to be in an emotionally and mentally abusive relationship EVER again.

I didn’t think I could date a man with kids after some tough experiences with someone else’s kids and crazy ex-wives! I also didn’t think a man would want me with my child. I learned how to turn beliefs like that on their head so they weren’t a barrier to receiving the family life I so yearned to have.

I did NOT believe love was meant for me. I learned how to believe like it’s fact that it IS meant for me….. and voila!

I have been in the trenches and done the work. I walk my talk and am passionate about supporting you to do the same.

I am a master therapeutic coach with 10 years coaching experience, helping women to know and love themselves.

I’ve studied and practiced Transformational Life Coaching, NLP, Reiki, Masculine / Feminine Energy Dynamics, Inner Child Healing, Catharsis Therapy and more.

I have personally invested tens of thousands of pounds in my own coaching, healing, development and growth.

I have a deep passion for bringing forth the empowered feminine, healing the inner child and transforming your victim archetype. I love mindset work and helping women to change their sabotaging beliefs. I am a huge fan of catharsis therapy and helping a woman to express her emotions so that she can experience peace, happiness and joy from the inside.

I adore the laws of the Universe and how we can use those to experience the love, support and guidance of Source Energy.

Manifestation, Magic and Miracles are my happy place. I am a bit woo woo.

Relationships has been the area of my life that has caused me the most pain and the most joy. I feel fully qualified to teach, coach and guide around this subject area. We teach what we needed to learn!

It’s now my pleasure and honour to guide a woman home to herself so that she can be the vibrational match to whatever she desires to call in.