Hey Self-Lover!
It’s a bit of an icky subject isn’t it – the secret desire to ‘win’.
No-one likes to feel like the ‘loser’ or second best.
It’s a sensitive subject. Indeed, it almost feels shameful to talk about it.
I know that part of my Soul’s evolution is learning to choose love over ego.
I am being called to live from Spirit in a way that is often so uncomfortable and so unfamiliar yet so exciting and liberating.
This assignment has sent people and experiences my way that push my ego buttons BIG TIME and I have been challenged many times to take a step back and look at the bigger picture.
The bigger picture being the truths that we are all one and that there is no such thing as separation or competition. That ‘winning’ is a made up concept. It doesn’t even exist!
I have learned that the desire to ‘win’ causes pain, grief, worry and exhaustion.
When I tune into my Spirit and ‘be love’, winning takes on a whole new meaning. To win means to rise above ego and practice the fine arts of forgiveness, gratitude and compassion.
The experience of ‘winning’ then feels entirely different. It’s an evolution. It’s a connectedness to my true self and the love of the Universe. There is NOTHING better, more powerful, more liberating or self-loving.
I won’t lie – choosing the path of love is often a challenge. Oh how my ego wants to take the reigns! But boy do I feel a depth of pride worthy of the challenge when I overcome my beautiful human-ness and embrace my gorgeous Spirit.
Such is the power of Love.
So, I dare you today to give up the need to win. Love yourself enough to remember the bigger picture!
Big love,
Katie xx
P.S. My book, ‘The Self-Love Affair’, has a whole section called ‘My Spirit. My Truth’ which is dedicated to developing a relationship with your true self. Such a mighty tool when it comes to dropping the need to win. You can grab a signed copy from my website by CLICKING HERE. The book includes links giving you free access to my library of meditations and music playlists to support your journey back to you.
