Welcome!

Let's get you ready to date online.

Feeling confident, optimistic and dare I say it, excited to go online takes more than great pics and a captivating bio - although they are important and we've got some awesome resources here to help you with that.

My passion and expertise is the 'inner work' - helping you align your energy with what you desire. It's all about being the vibrational match to your 'one' and the next level relationship you desire to experience.

The inner work is crucial when it comes to feeling safe, joyful and confident online.

I am so excited for you to remove any fear, doubt or overwhelm and step into an excited curiosity around the online dating space.

So let's dive in!

With love,

Katie xx

Founder of The School of Self Love

First, let's prepare your energy.

Your 4 Steps to Online Dating Success

Before choosing your online dating platform and creating your profile, it's important to align your energy with the experience you desire to receive.

Click the button below for a mini downloadable playsheet to set you up for success.

Here's what we will cover :

1. Set your intention

2. Write your vision

3. Release your worries

4. Release attachment & allow magic

Click to download worksheet

How To Date Confidently Online

Join UK celebrity online dating coach, James Preece, and I for a masterclass on how to feel safe, have fun, create an awesome profile and master the algorithms of online dating platforms!

Worksheet

Print and answer these questions while watching the masterclass above

Click to download worksheet

How To Create Scroll Stopping Profile Pics

A podcast mini-series from Saskia Nelson, founder of Hey Saturday - a renown dating photography agency.

In just 45 minutes Saskia will teach you everything you need to know to create powerful dating pics. Listen and take notes!

Episode 1 (5 min)


Episode 2 (8 min)


Episode 3 (6 min)


Episode 4 (9 min)


Episode 5 (12 min)


Episode 6 (6 min)


Are you ready to dive deeper into the inner work?

I've worked with thousands of women - helping them to prepare to call in love. Let's explore how I can support you with your next step.

Calling in your soul mate is the perfect opportunity to call in yourself.

Being single is a chance to reconnect with you, remember who you are, identify what you value and remove anything that's standing in the way of you and love (which is a healing and transformational journey of mind, emotions, body and soul).

Here's some options. Perhaps take a look and feel into which is the right next move for you. If you aren't sure, why not consider booking a conversation with us to hep you identify your next steps?

We are here to help.

With love,

Katie x

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You don’t need to take a leap of faith

These women can tell you exactly what to expect from this work and whether it’s worth taking the chance!

Just click each video to watch women share their inspiring stories of being where you are now and making the changes that you desire because they committed to the work I am offering to you today. And enjoy scrolling through tonnes of testimonials spanning a decade from very happy clients!

These women met their soul mate >


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    > CHARLIE'S EXPERIENCE

    I met my guy 7 months after the 'Daring & Mighty Love' course!

    Katie came along at a time in my life when I really felt ready to do the inner work and start making some change.

    I was lucky enough to choose the group coaching sessions and the other girls who joined were just fabulous. All of us fully committed to engaging with Katie and jumping in to baring our true authentic selves.

    The support Katie provided not just on the calls but in the Facebook group too was invaluable and it really felt that she was totally committed to us and our journey.


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    > CLARE'S EXPERIENCE

    I signed up to Daring and Mighty Love because I was feeling blocked about finding a relationship. It was so much more valuable than I expected. I left not only having removed blocks and healing my heart but having clarity in what I desire and truly believing that I am worthy of a healthy and committed relationship.

    I now feel confident and skilled up to get out there and date!


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    > IZI'S EXPERIENCE

    I felt so detached and as a result of the coaching I have come back to life and am living bigger and better than ever before.

    I felt lost before working with Katie. I knew I had so much love to give and receive but for various reasons it felt so out of reach. Every day felt like a chore and I couldn’t understand how I would ever get out of the hole I was stuck in. If someone said to me 5 months ago that I would feel like the real me again, I wouldn’t have believed it.

    Katie works in such a gentle and caring way. I felt (and still feel) nurtured when I work with her. I feel safe and listened to. The power of her words is incredible.

    Life is clearer than it has ever been. I’m getting better at not knowing the answers and trusting in the process. I see my worth more and more every day and I feel so much more comfortable in receiving - mentally, physically and emotionally.

    Working with Katie has been one of the biggest and best investments for me and is worth every single penny. I’m loving the real me.


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    > RACHEL'S EXPERIENCE

    The Daring and Mighty Love course has been an evolution for me as well as a revolution. I have really started to respect and allow myself to be open to possibility without being a victim to circumstance or a martyr to my own belief systems. And I have started the crucial work in dismantling those belief systems. I genuinely know, feel, and believe that the Daring and Mighty Love Mastermind has given me the tools, strength and awareness to swim into my next chapters, and to know the work is there for me to revisit and expand on as and when I will and must.


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    > ANNE'S EXPERIENCE

    After completing the 5 day ‘Meet Your Soul Mate’ Challenge, I signed up for ‘Daring & Mighty Love’ - The Mastermind - as I was frustrated at still being single and I had an overriding feeling that finding love shouldn’t be so difficult.

    I’ve gained much from the work but most importantly :

    * Getting in touch with my inner child
    * Recognising a habit of playing small & not wanting to ask for too much
    * The importance of being feminine & playful
    * Owning my vulnerability & feelings
    * Exploring my attitudes around men & women (their roles etc)
    * Appreciating that acceptance/receiving/surrender can be just as useful as action - it’s a balance

    It is certainly a significant investment but that was one of the factors which made me stick with it when it felt challenging & uncomfortable. Katie is intuitive, supportive & compassionate. I am also grateful to those in the group who shared & encouraged me.

    My desires are meant for me, so I’m glad that I committed to the work of understanding myself better & showing up a little differently in life so that I can receive them!


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Women who have done this work say >


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    > HATTIE'S EXPERIENCE

    My new man has just moved in with me and we are looking for a bigger home. He is everything I think I ever wanted in a man! So kind and caring.


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    > KATE’S EXPERIENCE

    For me this was the most incredible in-depth “degree” in me. And, I met my man!

    The place I was in before starting Daring and Mighty Love compared to now is unrecognisable. I feel I’ve shed the skin of a person who was doubting the possibilities of the future, disbelieving her power, personal convictions, values and desires.

    I learned so much about myself but more than that I learned how to empower myself when difficulties crop up, stay true to my values and continue on the path of gaining all I desire. I also learned how to bring in love, spirituality and self care into my day.

    Before working with Katie I couldn’t even imagine dating again. I went on to enjoy dating in a way that felt really light, easy and fun for me. Then I met my man less than a year after starting my coaching journey with Katie. I am in awe of myself!

    All the life skills I learnt on the course give me an empowerment that encourages me to make the right decisions on everything from money … to love … to career… to health.

    It’s the best investment I’ve made ... and it continues to give.


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    > RACHEL'S EXPERIENCE

    As a coach myself, over the years I had done a ton of personal development work, however one piece of feedback that I continuously got was that I needed to “love myself more.” Friends and coaches would observe “you’re too hard on yourself.” Because I had come so far from where I started, I was at a loss of how I could love myself MORE. Enter Katie with her teachings around the inner child, boundaries, self love and getting your needs met…at first, I thought it sounded a bit too touchy feely and unnecessary. Hadn’t I done enough? The answer was a resounding NO. Not even close.

    Working with Katie both in the 1:1 setting (and also with the perfect group of women she called in) was miraculous. She was able to hold the space for me to really dive deep into the blocks I was still facing. She dug in and did the work with me to help me figure out how to unravel the very old twisted beliefs we found together. The result was way better boundaries, no more settling in my love or professional life and a sense of freedom that I hadn’t felt before. Katie is THE premiere expert in self love. If you find that you need to learn to love yourself more, to set better boundaries, to stop settling in any area of your life, Katie is the woman for you!


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    > EMILY'S EXPERIENCE

    My coaching experience with Katie has been nothing short of revolutionary! After finding Katie and the Daring and Mighty Love (Live with mastermind) programme via Instagram, I felt an instant connection and was drawn to working with her. Aside from her warmth and light, I really resonated with her story. I remember during our first call explaining that what I wanted more than anything in the world was to truly belong to somebody. I was done waiting and felt that I was ready for love. What I didn’t realise at that point was that what I really needed to work on was belonging to and loving myself!

    Through the private coaching sessions with Katie and the online course, I have begun the journey of TRUE self-discovery.

    Katie’s style of intuitive guidance is a rare and unique talent. I love how she naturally blends spirituality and life coaching so beautifully. She also has the innate ability to shine a (very) bright light on blockages and issues that you most probably were unable to see yourself.

    The Facebook group has also been an additional blessing. During each of the group coaching sessions, I was able to connect, share vulnerably in an open and safe space, and learn from 4 other fantastic and inspiring women who I am now honoured to call friends.

    I am happy to report that I have come a long way since I began the programme. I have healed some very painful blockages that were holding me back from truly connecting to others and re-written many of the old beliefs that were not serving me. I have found a sense of belonging within that I never knew was possible and have finally embarked upon a beautiful relationship of true love with myself.

    I cannot recommend Katie and her work enough. If you feel that you are ready to put yourself first, do the work and dig deep, you will not regret embarking on this journey. Working with Katie has been the best investment I have ever made in myself and worth each and every penny!


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    > MEL'S EXPERIENCE

    Katie is such an effective coach because she is so intuitive. Within the first 5 minutes of our first call, she had identified a huge blindspot that was blocking me from being the fullest expression of my joyful and loving self. I’ve been able to transform so many areas of my life just by catching this one pattern.

    Throughout the Daring and Mighty Love (Live with mastermind) course, I could tell that she genuinely cared for each of us. I was running out of hope of ever meeting my guy, but she held the faith for me. Her certainty allowed me to believe that if a relationship is what my heart desires, then it is meant for me. The coaching and the sisterhood created such a compassionate and loving space for me, that my innermost fears, insecurities and wounds felt safe enough to crawl out of their hiding places, come into the open, and be healed.

    This course came at the perfect time for me. Each module is chock full of transformational truth, and I see clear and concrete results show up in my life every time I do the homeplay. For example, when I practiced the feminine art of 'receiving', I started getting stuff for free. Everything from dinners to lucky draw prizes. I even won a month of free yoga! This stuff works!

    Doing this work has answered so many of my heart’s secret questions about love. Before this course, I felt desperate to find a man, worried there was something wrong with me, frustrated that I was not getting what I want, and fearful of ending up alone forever. Now, I’m a woman who knows her value, who’s aligning her life and actions with her Truth, who’s blossoming into a greater version of herself every day, and who loves and respects every part of herself. I’m on my way to finding the love of my life. Its just a matter of time.


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How she found her man using self love >


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    - ANON

    We are engaged and have a gorgeous baby boy!

    I am so happy.


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    > BECCA’S EXPERIENCE

    I met my man after working with Katie!

    I joined the Daring and Mighty Love Mastermind having felt inspired by the 'Meet your Soulmate' challenge. I went on to join The Love Lounge because I didn't want the journey to end!

    I had never realised that being part of a sisterhood sharing thoughts, feelings, issues and tissues would make such a dramatic difference to my life. I have learnt to understand my feminine, to embrace my gifts, to feel genuine confidence and most importantly, I have now grasped that I am loveable just as I am. My imperfections are my vulnerabilities and they are beautiful.

    I can now stand in my own power and lead my life without the worry of others opinions, which is a true feat for me.

    Katie has provided a unique space to share in safety and love, leading us to the parts of ourselves we may never have known needed healing.

    She's a true light, an inspiration and I admire her honesty, focus and care for all her clients.


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    > SHARON'S EXPERIENCE

    I was was stuck, stuck for years. I saw everything as a burden, a barrier. My life was driven by fearful thoughts - Fear of losing my job, losing my home and being single forever. The list was long...

    I was confident on the outside but inside I was full of self-doubt, I had low self-esteem, could not be myself in a relationship. I feared that being me wasn’t good enough or loveable.

    Working with Katie was a game changer for me. I realised I held so many negative and limiting beliefs about myself. These beliefs were deeply rooted in my childhood and became lifelong limiting beliefs.

    Katie’s ‘Daring and Mighty Love’ has genuinely changed me. I now feel so happy. I’m no longer playing the victim; but instead making decisions and taking action towards my dreams. I just can’t believe how quickly this has all happened.


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    > VANESSA'S EXPERIENCE

    Although I felt I had so much in my life - a creative business, loving and supportive network of friends and family, a happy up-bringing and a pretty fulfilled life - there still seemed to be a void. I had a persistent inner critic that nagged that I was a bad person, not attractive enough, didn’t deserve to be loved, should be earning more and I was constantly reminded of my failings with past relationships.

    I have not been able to find and keep the love and support of a man in my life and I’ve blamed this on myself.

    Working with Katie has been enlightening! She has helped me to create such a sense of clarity and happiness.

    In the beginning the coaching felt indulgent and unjustified. Now I see it was essential!

    Unpicking my past with Katie’s support enabled me to heal pieces that were still so evidently effecting my present behaviour. Identifying, releasing and changing destructive belief systems has given me such a sense of clarity.

    I feel more accepting, prepared and clearer in my life’s direction.

    I am making conscious decisions which is a huge comfort. For the first time in a long time I find myself in the present and looking forward, excited about the next chapter!


    This work has honestly guided me to a kinder and happier place in my mind and I am so grateful to Katie. She is brilliantly intuitive, kind and patient – a real inspiration and a beautiful soul to follow. A HUGE thank you!


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    > HELEN'S EXPERIENCE

    I’ve learned so much about myself during the 'Daring & Mighty Love' course and am truly grateful for how Katie has supported me. She’s an incredible coach and I can’t recommend her highly enough.

    My main takeaways:

    ❤️Clean up your side of the street.
    If someone has triggered you, ask yourself ‘what is it that I need that I feel I’m not getting?’ Then work on giving yourself just that. A biggy for me because I do have a bit of fire inside me but checking in on myself with this hugely helps.

    ❤️’Every act is either an expression of love or a call for love regardless of how unskillful it may appear.’ Quote @daringandmighty
    If relationships with family, friends, partners are tricky, ask yourself if the behaviour is being driven by love or fear. Either way it’s ok.

    ❤️What other people think of you is none of your business.
    It really isn’t! Stop worrying about what people think and just do you. If they don’t like it? That’s their business not yours.

    ❤️Understanding masculine/feminine dynamics is game changing. I’ve learnt so much from Katie about my masculine and feminine energy and how to harness both from an empowered space. Always more to learn but it’s been eye opening so far.

    ❤️Get super clear on what you desire then let go of the ‘how’.
    It’s so easy to get stuck on how we achieve our big dreams and desires. Letting go of the how and taking guided rather than forced action has been pretty life changing.

    ❤️Facing what you are avoiding leads to a much happier healthier life.
    I recently faced something I’d been avoiding for a long time and can’t tell you how much healthier, happier, motivated and zingy I feel now I’m moving out the other side.

    ❤️Work on yourself every day. For me it’s giving myself what I need in exercise, meditation, sleep, processing thoughts and emotions, reading, mixing. Whatever helps you work on your mindset and feel good.

    Thank you for everything Katie, you are incredible.



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    > SONIA'S EXPERIENCE

    I called in love!

    Directly on the back of completing the 'Daring & Mighty Love' course, I called in love!

    We have something very special that we both cherish.


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    > DAYNA'S EXPERIENCE


    Words cannot begin to express the wonderful experience I’ve had of Katie and her Daring & Mighty Love program.

    As a stressed out single Mom, building a business, I had already done a lot of the work to lead a life "on purpose", but I still had barriers keeping me from having everything that I desired… in love, in my business, and in life.

    Katie was able to see things in me I wasn’t able to see. She created a safe space for me to let down the barriers and explore everything it is to be authentically me!

    Katie is knowledgeable, experienced, and tapped into her intuition, and because of it she is able to lead her clients in a way that is gentle, honest, and tailored. She is beautiful not only in body, but in spirit.

    Through each of the Daring & Mighty modules, and in her commitment to her clients, Katie has created the space for powerful personal growth. This is an investment in yourself, and as in life, you get out of it what you put into it. If you allow it, this program will open you up to calling in everything you desire for yourself. Come ready to do the work!


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    > KATE'S EXPERIENCE

    I did the course after completing Katie’s 5 day challenge. I loved her authenticity and style and the inner child and masculine/feminine work really resonated with me. I just knew I needed to delve deeper into these areas and that I also wanted to work with Katie.

    The course not only delivered everything it promised and I’d expected, but it exceeded what I’d hoped to learn and achieve, and gave me so much more.

    My suspicions from the 5 day challenge were confirmed and I learnt that my original victim and masculine were running the show. It was only working with Katie and a group that I realised for the first time, I wasn’t alone in this.

    I have done work before but nothing seemed to get to the depth that doing this course did. I finally learnt to truly feel my emotions, be feminine, be vulnerable and surrender. Having always avoided and struggled with this, Katie made it all make sense, feel easy and I learnt that living this way actually made me stronger not weaker. I learnt the true meaning of joy, what my desires are and how to receive.

    Working with Katie and doing the course didn’t feel like learning, the key for me was that it gave me the tools to tap into my own intuition and trust it. I hadn’t wanted to do this before, let alone listen. Katie helped me understand that this was driven by fear and it’s actually the safest place for me to be and exactly where all the answers are for me going forward. Sounds simple, but without Katie’s guidance and the tools in the course, I wouldn’t have believed in it, let alone be able to live my life this way.

    Working in a group was key and we all remain in touch after the course. Knowing I wasn’t alone, others had similar feelings, hearing other peoples perspective and learnings from the modules and the support I received from them all was just priceless.

    The course Katie has put together is brilliant but it’s Katie that makes it exceptional. Her own life experiences, her coaching style, her understanding and her ability to offer guidance exactly where you need it is what makes working with her so special and unique.

    If I could sum it up in one sentence; Katie made a lot of things I kind of knew finally make sense and she gave me the tools to live a happier life for the rest of my life.


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